Guidelines for Healthy Dialogues

Free Minds, Free People promotes and supports spaces where honest and respectful language is used. We recognize and value that everyone comes from different places, backgrounds, and experiences, and we seek to create an environment where people treat each other respectfully and where we can hold each other accountable.

We are asking conference participants to abstain from the use of language (verbal, written and body) and practices that reinforce adultism, racism, sexism, heterosexism, and ableism, among others.

In an effort to provide space were everyone can have an equal voice, we are asking people to be aware of their privilege (e.g. being white, male, without a disability, straight, an adult, holding an advanced degree, etc.). We discourage anyone from dominating meeting space, large group discussions or small group conversations.

Here are some guidelines for creating a positive community space:

• Our time together is precious. WAIT (Why Am I Talking?) Because we have limited time available, we want to make sure that as many people as possible can participate. Please make sure your comments and questions are concise and address the issue at hand.
• In this space, we are all teachers and learners. Everyone can learn from one another as well as bring their experience to the community.
• Step up, step back. Talkers step back, quiet people step up.
• Keep an open mind. Be prepared to listen to others, even if you do not agree with them. And be prepared to have your views challenged by others.
• Challenge people respectfully. Please focus your comments on the idea not the person expressing it. Remember, we all make mistakes. Making mistakes is part of the learning process.
• Be aware of power and voice in the room. Be mindful of your privilege and step back when appropriate.
• Please turn off cell phones or put them on vibrate.